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How to be in a relationship for more than three years / A woman’s “You’ve changed!” Meaning

I would like to introduce you to how to have a relationship for more than 3 years.

The secret to dating for more than 3 years!

First, recognize why.
Why can’t I stay in a relationship for more than three years?

You have to recognize it.

That is, you should be aware that the brain does not cause an illusion.

Relationships are between two people who love each other, not alone.

Which means that even if you have this information on your own, it’s useless if you don’t.

So understand this, and then deliver it to your lovers.
This is the principle when we suddenly feel bored while reading this article together!
It’s really important to organize that.

Match up the second topic of conversation.
Did you fall in love with someone who always says positive things?
Did you start dating out of sympathy because you felt sorry for the poor person?

I would like to introduce you to how to have a relationship for more than 3 years.



The secret to dating for more than 3 years!

First, recognize why.
Why can’t I stay in a relationship for more than three years?

You have to recognize it.



That is, you should be aware that the brain does not cause an illusion.



Relationships are between two people who love each other, not alone.

Which means that even if you have this information on your own, it’s useless if you don’t.



So understand this, and then deliver it to your lovers.
This is the principle when we suddenly feel bored while reading this article together!
It’s really important to organize that.




Match up the second topic of conversation.
Did you fall in love with someone who always says positive things?
Did you start dating out of sympathy because you felt sorry for the poor person?

You get tired of talking about one-sided topics.
If a positive person takes a negative attitude,
I felt like, “I don’t think I know this person…”
The feelings you loved can be cooled down in an instant.




“I fell in love with this guy’s positive side.
You only talk negatively in front of me…”

“You were a brighter person than me, didn’t you?”

So with 80 percent positive and 20 percent negative.
You can understand each other better if you have a conversation.
They help me date for a long time.



Don’t always try to show the other side a bright side of you.

Share the pain, share the pain, and double the happiness.




Even if you fight for the third time, fight short, and fight with your own laws.
When you’re in a relationship, you can’t help but fight.
Two completely different people meet and share their bodies and minds.
It’s almost impossible not to fight.



So even if you fight, you fight wisely, and you recover quickly.
It’s better to have a closer love.




Human life expectancy is 100 years.
No one knows how long they will date or get married.
It’s a waste of time to love, but you don’t have to waste your time fighting.

So end the fight as soon as possible and love it.
The next thing I want you to do is fight with your own laws.

What if they fight?
It’s to make a kind of two-person law that says, “Let’s not do it.”



The most important rule to put in is…
I don’t blame humanity.
I don’t put off the case.
Don’t blame others.
I don’t ignore it’s

Make sure you put these four things in and make your own rules.




I don’t blame humanity.



“I told you to wash the dishes right after you eat, right?
You’re such a lazy person that you shouldn’t use it!”


Don’t criticize personality, humanity like you do.
The example above is cute, but it’s not just cursing and shouting.
It’s prohibited because if you join together, you’ll get hurt that’s hard to get rid of.



I don’t want to delay the case.
There’s a fight based on men.
I thought I’d be able to look at the case more soberly over time.
We put it off with “Let’s think about it a little more and talk about it.”


It’s a fight that will end in a fight of ten, but it’s a little bit of a catch.
It’s the worst way to fight a hundred, so if you fight,
It’s best to solve it on the spot.
So it’s also prohibited to delay the case.



I don’t blame anyone.
“I’ll do this because you’re doing this way!”
It’s better for a lot of people to quit.
It’s a method you use a lot to defend yourself.
It’s prohibited because it’s a way to make the other person more angry, let alone defense.



I don’t ignore it.
You know even if I don’t tell you, right?
You have to solve the problem, but ignoring it won’t solve it.
There’s a fire next door. We need to call a fireman.
If you don’t see it, the fire will spread to your house, right?
So if you fight, you have to solve it.
Ignoring is also prohibited!

This is the third one.




Lastly, don’t think it’s the fourth one anyway.
People are never the same.
Personality can change, values can change, values can change.
Hobbies can change, and humanity can change.
That is, humans change.

But you’ve been dating for a year, and you’re pretending you know everything.
“He only drinks warm iced americano anyway.”
Don’t conclude that.

You may want to drink sweet drinks because you are stressed by work.
You may want to drink a drink full of caffeine because you are sleepy.

The choices always change depending on the circumstances.
Doesn’t personality, values, hobbies, and humanity change?

So don’t conclude that you know everything about the other person.
Always try to get to know each other again.

You should be interested in the other person.




Women often say this to men, right?
“You’ve changed!”

Men don’t understand.
“I’ve changed??”

It’s not 100% male’s fault.
Unaware of the change in men,

uninterested in men
There’s also women’s fault.

Also, I notice this rapidly changing person late and my love cools down.
So please be interested in someone who is constantly changing.



If you’re good at the four things above,

You can have a happy relationship for the rest of your life without missing a really good person.

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