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I got dumped! Acts of ruining a relationship

The words “I like you,” “I love you,” and “Thank you” were believed to be like sighs that inevitably spit out when emotions were on the pole.

My ex-boyfriend told me he loved me endlessly, and I couldn’t bring it out of my mouth. So our relationship ended with a word, “Did you like me?”

But three months later, I couldn’t forget him and sent him a message saying, “I loved him a lot.”

The fact that I was “read-and-rejected” at that time still remains a dark history of wearing blankets whenever I think of it.

One thing I learned from my last relationship.
“Mature way of expression”

The power of expression in love is enormous. It is reborn as a stronger relationship when expressing not only love but also sorry, disappointment, and gratitude maturely.

The relationship with him, who always told me, “You look like my mom” and “I like that you’re good to my mom,” was not smooth.

He was a man who made me eat, wash, and even clean when he worked late at night too much. You were crazy


It was like that back then. The moment I said I love you, I felt like I was lying.


The words “I like you,” “I love you,” and “Thank you” were believed to be like sighs that inevitably spit out when emotions were on the pole.

My ex-boyfriend told me he loved me endlessly, and I couldn’t bring it out of my mouth. So our relationship ended with a word, “Did you like me?”

But three months later, I couldn’t forget him and sent him a message saying, “I loved him a lot.”






The fact that I was “read-and-rejected” at that time still remains a dark history of wearing blankets whenever I think of it.


One thing I learned from my last relationship.
“Mature way of expression”

The power of expression in love is enormous. It is reborn as a stronger relationship when expressing not only love but also sorry, disappointment, and gratitude maturely.


The relationship with him, who always told me, “You look like my mom” and “I like that you’re good to my mom,” was not smooth.

He was a man who made me eat, wash, and even clean when he worked late at night too much. You were crazy.

At that time, it was just as good as we were married. There was no doubt that all these sacrifices would be returned with greater love later on.







One day, he suddenly informed me of breaking up, and when asked why, he replied, “We just met enough to meet.” I cried without realizing it.

Yes, I was kicked like a fool. Stop babysitting.


One thing I learned from my last relationship.
“Meet someone who respects me.”

A man who treats me thoughtlessly can always lie to me. without any reason

Respect for relationships should be made in both directions. It is natural that he should respect you as much as you respect him.


The time I had to spend alone was in itself disturbing. So he relied on the man he dated at the time for a minute and a second.

That’s when the misfortune began. When the person who majored in music said he was practicing instruments, with his friends, and with his family, it seemed like an excuse.

He persistently repeated childish questions such as “Is work more important than me?” and “Who will you save first if your family and I fall into the water?” The endless fighting ended in a year.







After 10 months of dating, I could get a job. That’s when I did back then.

One thing I learned from my last relationship.
“You’re you, I’m me, we’re us.”

Not acknowledging the other person’s personal time when dating means that he does not respect the time he spends with his friends and family.

There is a high probability that someone who can spend time well alone knows how to maintain a healthy relationship.

Thanks to you, I always ask, “What do you do alone on weekends?”








He used to lie, but one day he went underwater. There was no answer even when I sent Kakao Talk and called. Two months later, he contacted me again after the break-up.

Of course, I still have regrets. I didn’t hear the reason why we broke up, because I missed you.” The person I met again with with a lot of excuses. When can I meet someone new again and date someone?

I firmly believed that I could mend his faults if I did well. Of course, like other common relationships, we quarreled for the same reason, and he was again out of touch again.

That’s our last.


One thing I learned from my last relationship.
“People are not rewritten.”

I can’t do what I want, but it’s arrogant to expect an adult to change to my taste.

I believe that a mature love affair is a change that arbitrarily adapts to each other little by little.

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