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Advice for you who fight every time you date

When talking with parting girls, the most difficult part is emotional control.

When they are sensitive, they get angry and make trouble, and when they want to break up, they hang on to themselves and drop their self-esteem.
What’s unfortunate is that even the parting girls regret their actions.

“I shouldn’t have been angry at that time…” “I shouldn’t have run away with it,” he said. “I can’t control my feelings wisely. Of course, you don’t have to learn how to control your emotions.

In many cases, people scream when they feel bad and repeat a relationship when they are dumped, and luckily get married at the right timing.

But if you want a wise and more stable relationship, let’s focus on today’s writing. If you do this well, you won’t miss a good man!

It’s your fault!

Emotions are yours.

When asked why they can’t control their emotions, most parting girls say this. “My boyfriend did it wrong first!”

When talking with parting girls, the most difficult part is emotional control.

When they are sensitive, they get angry and make trouble, and when they want to break up, they hang on to themselves and drop their self-esteem.
What’s unfortunate is that even the parting girls regret their actions.

“I shouldn’t have been angry at that time…” “I shouldn’t have run away with it,” he said. “I can’t control my feelings wisely. Of course, you don’t have to learn how to control your emotions.



In many cases, people scream when they feel bad and repeat a relationship when they are dumped, and luckily get married at the right timing.

But if you want a wise and more stable relationship, let’s focus on today’s writing. If you do this well, you won’t miss a good man!


It’s your fault!




Emotions are yours.

When asked why they can’t control their emotions, most parting girls say this. “My boyfriend did it wrong first!”

What they say is absolutely correct. Clearly, the contact with her boyfriend suddenly decreased, became as sour as before, or made some slip of the tongue.

That boyfriend’s behavior is definitely making people feel bad, too!



But don’t forget!

Emotions are yours, and depending on your choice,

You can be angry or you can’t be angry.



Think of it this way, your 8-year-old nephew hit another friend of his age at the playground.

When you ran and asked why he hit you, he said, “He made fun of me first!” you said, “Yes, if you made fun of me first, you can hit me! Good job!” will you say?



It’s too childish to get angry because the other person offended me bad.

Like it’s not natural to hit someone for making fun of you.

It is not natural to be angry and sarcastic about someone’s bad feelings.



But you don’t have to be resentful, saying, “Then do you want me to live my whole life without saying anything?” Besides being angry, there are plenty of other ways to express your feelings and change your opponent’s behavior.

Even though you really tried hard, you don’t have to be angry even if you get into trouble between your opponent. “I’ve been trying so hard.

I think we really don’t fit… “Meet a good person…” We can organize our relationship quietly and politely.



It’s never just your boyfriend’s fault that you’re angry and yelling at him.

Your boyfriend’s misbehavior, “Don’t you think you’re ignoring me?” “How many times do you break your promise!” “If you’re in a relationship, shouldn’t you do this?”

Because he encouraged negative emotions by thinking negatively about himself, he vented his anger on the absentminded man.



If you’re hurt by his behavior,

Surely the wound should be healed with your boyfriend.

But it doesn’t have to be a way to vent anger or sarcastic things to your boyfriend.



You can forget all your writing today. Just remember one thing.

Your feelings are yours.

You can do whatever you want.

You have to take responsibility for it.





If I’m swayed by emotions, I’ll actually lose money.

There is one reason why I write such a thing while enduring malicious comments every time. If you are swayed by emotions and get angry, you may feel cool at that time, but you always get angry when you end up being angry.



People think it’s a loss to understand each other and make concessions.

Understanding and yielding to others is beneficial, at least in love relationships.



People who get angry and can’t control their emotions.

At the moment of parting, he clings to his opponent, saying, “I should have done better.”

People who don’t get angry and are good at controlling their emotions.

At the moment of parting, I said, “Yes, I did enough.”I accept the breakup with a bitter smile.

Which one do you want to be?



Of course, there may be situations where you have to be angry or where you really can’t stand it.

But think for yourself every time.

“If I get angry, it’s my loss.”

Not for anyone. Try to control your emotions for yourself.





Don’t take it for granted to be a slave to emotion.

During the consultation, the most frustrating people, no matter what they say, said, “But… Your boyfriend did something wrong. “Isn’t that right?” he tries to rationalize his anger by continuing to mention the man’s wrongdoing.

They say. I’m sure I wouldn’t have been angry if my boyfriend hadn’t been, but the sad thing here is, “There’s never a perfect man who can keep you from getting angry.”



You may think that the man in front of you is the worst man, the bad man, and the man who causes anger. But the important thing is that other men than him will definitely make you angry.

Are you going to get angry and scream every time you meet a man and repeat the pattern of being dumped and hung up?



Controlling your emotions is not something you lose, something unfair, or something unfair.

It is a virtue that you must have for realistic and safe relationships and relationships.

Don’t say it proudly because your boyfriend made you angry. It’s like saying, “I’m going to meet a man who fits me!”



My ex-boyfriend, my current boyfriend, my future boyfriend.

All boyfriends will make you angry.

Will you be angry every time? Or will you try to find other wise ways?

The choice is what you do and the responsibility is what you take.

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