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Apology is important for a couple fight.

Is there anyone who can’t apologize well?

I’m not good at apologizing.
I’ve heard that before.

The reason why I couldn’t apologize well
It was in Timing.

The timing of the apology is…
It has to depend on the topic of the fight.

Quick Apologize vs Late apology

Professor Blake Hendrickson of the State University of New York.
60 couples, usually fighting well.
I got him to have a discussion.
Fight a fight

However, before the discussion began, the professor said,
To one of the couples.
They set the time for me to apologize.

Is there anyone who can’t apologize well?



I’m not good at apologizing.
I’ve heard that before.

The reason why I couldn’t apologize well
It was in Timing.


The timing of the apology is…
It has to depend on the topic of the fight.




Quick Apologize vs Late apology

Professor Blake Hendrickson of the State University of New York.
60 couples, usually fighting well.
I got him to have a discussion.
Fight a fight

However, before the discussion began, the professor said,
To one of the couples.
They set the time for me to apologize.

for half
One minute after the conversation began,

the other half
Five minutes after the conversation began,
I made him apologize.



After the couple’s fight,
Professor Blake said, “How much apple do you have?”
I asked if it worked.



How did it turn out?



length of fighting
Professor Blake said,
I found something amazing.
The right timing of apology is…
It depends on the time the couple fought.



First of all, in the case of a short fight within 10 minutes,
When you apologize late
The other person’s satisfaction with the conversation has increased.



On the other hand, in the case of longer than ten minutes of fighting,
When you apologize quickly
I was more satisfied with the conversation.

Whoa, why is that?

“The fight that ended in 10 minutes
There’s a high possibility they fought over a minor problem.”

“In this case, if you apologize quickly,
The other party is against you.
You can have it.”



“I just don’t like the atmosphere of fighting.
as if he had made a ready-made apology.
I can see it.”

“In times like this, the other person’s mind is…
After having enough time to count,
You’d better apologize.”

Aha, I see.

“On the other hand, fighting for more than 10 minutes
It means the problem is very complicated.”

“In this case, I’ll hand over the apple first.
after a person’s heart has been relieved
It helps to keep the conversation going.”

“But don’t get me wrong.
The purpose of the apology here is to vent your anger.
I’m not trying to end the conversation.”

“I admit my mistake first,
talkable over and over again
It’s creating an atmosphere.”

“The other person who saw this attitude
with a smoother heart
I was able to participate in the conversation.”

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