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Can I develop from a friend to a lover?

There are so many men and women in the world who leave once friends as eternal friends.

Now, then, we’re going to try to find some men and women who call themselves friends.
Should we consider it a relatively safe relationship that is difficult to develop into a woman relationship?

Should I nail down that developing from friend to lover is a difficult job?
It should never be.

To tell you my story,
I never see a woman as a woman who was my childhood friend.
No matter how pretty and attractive that friend is in the eyes of another man, I don’t feel more than a same-sex woman I was too close to as a child.

One man said that he would never consider a woman to be his friend when he first met her.

From what I’ve heard and experienced,

There are so many men and women in the world who leave once friends as eternal friends.

Now, then, we’re going to try to find some men and women who call themselves friends.
Should we consider it a relatively safe relationship that is difficult to develop into a woman relationship?


Should I nail down that developing from friend to lover is a difficult job?
It should never be.

To tell you my story,
I never see a woman as a woman who was my childhood friend.
No matter how pretty and attractive that friend is in the eyes of another man, I don’t feel more than a same-sex woman I was too close to as a child.

If someone asks me why I’m doing this, I’ll say instinct. Frankly, I don’t know why, but just my body, my hormones, don’t respond to the other person.

How am I supposed to start loving her when I don’t feel my heart beating and fluttering?

Much fortunately, neither do my childhood female friends seem to see me as a man. So I and they sometimes meet, eat delicious food, and spend a long time at a cafe.

They also talk. Because of this firm character of mine, I thought once in my life a friend was an eternal friend. Until I met her,
She was a friend whom I got to know in church when I was studying abroad. When he met someone of the same age as him, he was glad to see him and tried to get close quickly.

Every Sunday after church service, I and she spent a year as comfortable friends who went to a cafe to talk with other friends of the church, and since I graduated from school first and came back home, we spent several years asking how we are doing on Facebook.

And after a few years, she came back home, and months after she came back, we caught up on dinner appointments and saw each other after a few years.

While eating together like that, I came to hear a surprising fact.
She was about to join the company where I was partnering with at the time.

I was so surprised, but on the one hand, I was glad. Because I thought it would be more convenient to work with close friends if we had to work together every day anyway.
As I expected, after she joined our company’s partner company, I and she talked on the phone almost every day about work and because each other’s company was close,

Once in the fall, the two met outside for lunch.

One day, a year after working together, she and I ate lunch together, ordered coffee at a cafe, and sat down looking for an empty seat.

And as we were talking for a while, the bell rang that the coffee we ordered came out. I was about to get up to get some coffee, but she gave me a wink that she would bring it and got up first and walked toward the counter.

I was checking the unread message in the meantime and I saw her bring coffee over the cell phone a moment later. I put the phone I was holding on the table and stretched it out to get a tray of coffee.

All of a sudden, she smiled on her face, and came out with the cappuccino she ordered, laying her napkin down in front of me as if she were a cafe employee. I thought you liked cinnamon powder, so I sprayed it in advance. Enjoy your meal.

“I was acting very deftly,” she said. At that moment, I felt the endorphins spinning fast all over my body, and my heart suddenly throbbed and I stared at her for a long time without saying anything, and there was no solution at all to deal with this heart-pounding and fluttering feeling that came unexpectedly.

I couldn’t understand why my feelings, which she prided herself on being a very rational person, were fluctuating in that playful performance she did to a close friend, so I was very embarrassed.

That night I lay in bed and pondered. I began to trace back my feelings as to why she suddenly looked like a woman, who had never felt like a woman since the day we first met… …

After a long process, you come to me with excitement, and from that moment, you look at the other person with honey dripping eyes, and you say thank you in a manner that you liked the other person’s manners that you just passed on before, so the other person got better.

Whether you admit it or not, you are in a position to like the friend and quickly decide whether you want to admit it and carefully convey your feelings to her or make her remain as a close and comfortable friend like me. Whatever nodule you make, there is no wrong decision. Just think long and make a decision without regret.

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