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How to Overcome a Separated Man

A has not forgotten his girlfriend since he broke up with her for 5 years.

“If you’re too tired, why don’t you just call your ex-girlfriend back?”

“You didn’t answer my calls…”

“Five years isn’t a short time… I’m leaving at once…”

“It’s my fault.”

“Who’s to blame for breaking up… ”

“It’s not easy to forget. ”

“You know I’ve been drinking for a month after I broke up with my girlfriend, right? And then I regretted why I did it, but I didn’t come back..”

A has not forgotten his girlfriend since he broke up with her for 5 years.

“If you’re too tired, why don’t you just call your ex-girlfriend back?”

“You didn’t answer my calls…”

“Five years isn’t a short time… I’m leaving at once…”

“It’s my fault.”

“Who’s to blame for breaking up… “

“It’s not easy to forget. “

“You know I’ve been drinking for a month after I broke up with my girlfriend, right? And then I regretted why I did it, but I didn’t come back..”

“I know… I don’t think I knew it was precious when I was there. like a fool”

“All right, if you knew, you wouldn’t have gone so far as to break up.”



Men often break up with a lover who loves emotions that they didn’t know when they were in a relationship and realize later on.

And like A right above, I regret and hang on, but sometimes I can’t undo my ex-girlfriend’s mind.

Sometimes we fight over light work and sometimes we can’t meet for a week or a month.

When a girlfriend decides to break up and talks about breaking up, she can’t easily change her mind.

So even men who don’t usually do so shed tears, drink alcohol and even threaten to die in front of their homes.

However, in order to go back, a woman would not have easily said goodbye either, and now she knows that she can no longer avoid corruption, but even the pain is inevitable.

So what are the ways to overcome such a painful breakup?





“Try to avoid thinking about your ex-girlfriend as much as you can.”


There won’t be much difference between a man and a woman just because it’s a way to overcome a breakup.

First of all, you should look at the photos of your ex-girlfriend and make sure you don’t toss and turn every night.

It is hard to get out of the pain of parting as much as you think that thinking soon leads to pain.

The ex-girlfriend is living well without thinking of you, and aren’t you comforting by drinking every night because you’re having a hard time thinking of your ex-girlfriend?

When you think of a girlfriend who broke up like a habit, you can’t easily forget her even if you want to forget her, and the more you have time, the more you think about her.



Of course, you can’t help but think about your ex-girlfriend when you break up, but if you don’t try to forget about your ex-girlfriend, it’s also easy to forget.

You can overcome the breakup from the moment you realize that you will never meet your ex-girlfriend again and now you admit that you have to accept the breakup.

That’s why you should develop a habit of thinking that your ex-girlfriend is someone else and avoid thinking no more because she wasn’t with her ex-girlfriend.





“If you have any regrets, don’t regret it.”

The reason why people can’t break up with someone is that they don’t have feelings for the person they broke up with.

It reminds me of things I couldn’t do for my ex-lover and things I did wrong.

In order to break up and break up, you can only accept the breakup if you admit that you can’t help it.

Perhaps someone who misses his ex-girlfriend, why didn’t I be nicer to his ex-

If he had understood his girlfriend a little more then, or if he had cared and loved her more then, he would regret every night that he might not have broken up like this now.

However, you should know that those regrets are already in the past and that regretful behavior cannot put your girlfriend back.

So now, we should pray for a good relationship and try to meet a good person.





“Don’t make your own free time.”

What’s bothering me after we break up is that we don’t have anyone to meet even though we have enough time.

There is no one to understand me.

However, people live in numerous relationships, but no one can be with them forever, and they come alone and live alone.

Therefore, we should create a time where we can live confidently even when we are alone and not to feel lonely.

It is good to live in busy daily life to get rid of leisure time, or to be interested and curious about new hobbies.

It is to get away from the idea of a girlfriend who broke up with her through something she didn’t usually do.

Especially when you are too busy, you often fall asleep because you are exhausted when you arrive home.



Some people even run two jobs and three jobs to forget their ex-lover and live busily in their daily lives.

Another way is to create a new hobby that allows you to change your mood while doing something you’ve never felt before.

If you experience new space and experience through spectacular hobbies, your lonely time will gradually be filled.






“Make sure you have a lot of acquaintance with people.”

You can’t fill in the vacancy of your beloved lover at once, but your heart’s pain can be reduced when you somehow fill the vacancy.


It is not wrong for a man to feel the pain of parting.

It’s not wrong to share it with someone. However, people may think, “Is a man that hard?”

When it is too painful, it can also be of great help to have a frank consultation with an acquaintance who can open his or her mind.

Especially for men who can’t tell their own stories, I think it can be helpful to comfort them first.

Also, when you have few meetings with acquaintances, it is better to join a club or group where you can meet new people and create an opportunity to get closer to people.

Of course, it won’t cheer up since we broke up, but by meeting people and communicating with them, you will have hope that someone will soon appear to soothe your loneliness.



So rather than just staying in the room alone too lonely, it’s better to make frequent schedules to go outside and meet people with fresh air can be breathed.

There are many people who can’t forget their ex-lover over time,

When looking at the situation of such people, they usually don’t want to let their ex-lover go out of their minds and hold a small hope that they might meet again someday.

However, if you don’t even contact me after a few months, it’s better for yourself to overcome the breakup so that you can shake it off.

If you go out to meet a new person yourself, you can also meet a new relationship, so why don’t you not be too discouraged and live a life for happiness rather than parting?

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