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a characteristic of a person who cares about others’ eyes

Regardless of occupation and age, people have something in common.

It’s called ‘those who are conscious of other people’s eyes’.
“The reason I’m so conscious of other people’s eyes is because

at the thought of being loved only by others.
It’s lonely and hard because I’m too conscious of other people’s eyes.”

1. Be “excessively considerate” in consideration of others’ eyes.

Regardless of occupation and age, people have something in common.

It’s called ‘those who are conscious of other people’s eyes’.
“The reason I’m so conscious of other people’s eyes is because

at the thought of being loved only by others.
It’s lonely and hard because I’m too conscious of other people’s eyes.”




1. Be “excessively considerate” in consideration of others’ eyes.

A person who is very conscious and considerate of others may be a person who did not receive much consideration and help that I needed and wanted when I was young.

You should have kept doing it yourself.
In this case, I can’t get help from others and feel lonely when I grow up.

So I know how hard it is without consideration, so I care a lot about other people.

People get tired of seeing themselves like this, and people around them often feel sad.

Because as much as I care about others, they may not know.

If there are a lot of things that people around me are upset about, it could be because I’m tired.

So if you get hurt by being considerate, you should reduce or stop caring.

Now is the time for me to stop caring for others and care for my tired mind.




2. ‘I want to hide’ what I don’t like.

Everyone has a tendency to hide what they don’t like.

Therefore, emotional ups and downs get worse several times a day depending on other people’s eyes and language.

It’s the same story, but as my day’s feelings are determined by other people’s eyes and language, I have no choice but to pay attention to others’ eyes and continue to cater to others.

Because I have a very hard time with negative views and language. But I can’t ask you to know that I’m having a hard time.

Because if you feel the negative gaze of others when you say something and no one knows it, you get even more hurt.

But how do you know when you don’t tell me? In the end, if you don’t seem to recognize it, the anger accumulated by others goes out to those close to you.

I don’t hate them a lot, but it’s because I’m having a hard time, right? So it’s hard to blame myself after I get so angry.




3. Starts off well, but becomes ‘weapon’.

I started it because I liked it and wanted to try it, but the reason I get lethargic is because I want to do well.

So I don’t want to do it when I meet myself who didn’t do well.
It’s because the degree of self-criticism is much greater than that of others.

Then I quickly lose my motivation in front of what I’m determined to do because I like it.
Because I don’t like myself because I want to do well.

So I don’t want to do it.

And you blame yourself.
I blame myself for not being motivated and comparing myself to someone who works hard.

I’m less willing to challenge something and I don’t like how I don’t challenge myself right now. It’s because it’s hard for me to accept it because I only tried to do so well.

And then you lose the power to sustain something.
If I’m in this situation and I’m worried about it, I want to start something that I want to do well.

Instead of trying to do the job too well, I think it would be good to just think of it as going to see you.

If you ask me if I can do well, I want to do well, but I hope you look at me warmly even if I didn’t do well.




4. ‘Emotional ups and downs’ are severe.

The reason why my emotions fluctuate a lot is that first, my feelings are determined by other people’s language and behavior.

So if you have a lot of ups and downs in your emotions, I’m very conscious of other people’s language and behavior.




5. Because you judge yourself as a result.

I’m working hard, but it’s not stable and it’s not working well.

So if it seems to work out well, I feel good, and if it doesn’t work out a little, I quickly get depressed.
Today’s article is for those who have had a hard day being conscious of other people’s eyes.



Rather than you always being a bright person,
It’s important whether you can love your less bright side.

It’s not like you have a big dream.
It is more important to know what your small satisfaction is today.

What’s important to you is,
It’s not like it won’t change if you worry about it right now.

Things that can change and change if you concentrate now.

No matter what you look like right now,
You can change over time.

He has time, he has opportunities.

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